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dennis and i spent about 3,4 hours at sawgrass mills today looking for a suit for him. man, i was bitching yesterday about looking for a dress but i gotta say even tho it was harder for me to find one, at least it didn’t cost me a $300 bucks! damn, men’s suits are expensive + shoes + tie and shirt. hope he doesn’t ‘outgrow’ this one too. when i first met him, he was downright anorexic. he was probably a whole 30lbs lighter then. He’s not fat or overweight now, he’s just gained enough weight to be healthy! so his old suit doesn’t fit him anymore obviously and it can’t be fixed to fit him either.

I’m not totally happy with my dress yet tho. i’m not really used to shopping for myself as a size 14 especially when most places only go up to 12 - ugh. seems like only yesterday i was a size 9. man, i know it may not seem like much to some folks who are heavier than that but it has to do with how you feel comfortable with yourself, and not necessarily the numbers. so it can’t really be compared i guess.

anyway, i guess i’ll tell ya’ll what all this dressing up is for. dennis and I are getting married on monday. surprise! surprise! surprise! after spending more money than we have in our bank accounts on this forking house (and we haven’t even gotten started yet) we decided we just don’t have the funds for big ‘ol wedding and my parents are in town so… it just seemed right to do it now. it will be a quicky wedding - at the court house - nice and cheep just like we want it. and a little get together afterwards with the immediate family. very lowkey, and a tad informal. This was our original plan to begin with and we should have stuck with it and not changed our minds when we did. Had we kept our original plans, we would have been married last month!

anyway, wish us good luck! and PLEASE keep this info hush hush for now. ok? so don’t go telling everyone at work just yet. let me spill the beans next week. :)