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Dunno why I just haven’t been on LJ for a few days now. I have been spending my free time on other thingss i guess.. And so I’m not up to date on LJ happenings

So what’s new in my life? I moved my employee account to VPS … still trying to get it completely up since I haven’t had alot of time to dedicate to it. Last night I imported my mysql database but now i’m having php problems. phpnuke problem, not the server. vps is sooo much nicer than shared. :) last think that has to happen is i need to get all my brother’s email off the old server then delete the old account after that.

my parentals are in town this week. dennis and i will be going to miami to visit tomorrow with the child. He doesn’t like going and last night said “oh, but i waaas going to mow the lawn” . He ALWAYS says shit like that whenever i want us to go to miami. jesus!. half the time i go it’s without him but I want him to go too, ya know?? They ALWAYS ask about him and where he is and why he didn’t come too.. It’s about the fourth time already he says shit like this to me. What a lame ass excuse anyway! He had 5 or 6 previous weekends he could have “mowed the lawn”. I understand he doesn’t like much going to my grandmother’s cuz we all talk in spanish and he doesn’t understand anything AND it’s boring for him cuz he doesn’t have a computer to surf the net on, doesn’t have a tv to watch sports center on, doesn’t have a game to play.. etc. But it’s my family! Besides he does talk to my dad in english all the time and my cousins too AND he’s got me there AND will have jada to spend the time with. I make sacrifices and spend time with HIS family every time he want’s to and I NEVER get to stay home like he stays home.. but I do it for him regardless. I expect the same in return dammit. It’s my family and I don’t get to see them often enough!!!! He already want’s to spend 75% of our vacation days visiting his family this year.. and i’m doing it cuz he’s my husband and i love him…. so why isn’t he more enthusiastic about keeping his end of the bargain here? It’s just as important for me that Jada know and love my family as it is for him that she love his family…

aaahhhh….well enough ranting for right now. he’s coming with me whether he likes it or not dammit! and he’ll like it too! lol

let’s see what else is new.
I’m on a mission to give our yard an overhaul. I’m starting in our little “garden” first. I’ve already done a lot of work but it’s one of those things that will look way worse before it starts to look better. There is dirt everywhere , piles and piles of clippings, my old plastic chairs too which we decided to throw out this coming week.. our tiny little bbq which we might be upgrading someday. And we’re on the market for patio furniture now but I’m not sure we should buy anything just yet. I would like for us to pay off all our CC first .. but it WOULD be really nice to be able sit out in our finally completed screened in patio…… hrmmm…..