fucken people!

OK, I know that a handful of people in the dungeon are bothered by small children. Especially screaming, crying small children. Hell, I have even overheard one person say a long time ago that they were bothered by a child’s soft voice in the dungeon. I don’t understand people who never want to have children. Hell, I don’t even understand people who don’t like dogs! But I respect them all. Everybody is entitled to make own opinions and life choices without getting criticized for them. But can you respect mine?!

Being fully aware of some people’s hangups in here, many times I do the “baby swap” outside in the parking lot. And when I can, I will quickly take her out to the hallway when she does start screaming. Her cries are very ear peircing, so I try to minimize subjecting others to it in here. But could these people try to be a little more understanding, ya think?

This is my baby we’re talking about. And I won’t ever let her be subjected to negative comments or mean looks from anyone. I don’t appreciate some of the reaction I get here. The rudeness at times can be very heartless. It’s a child, not a dog or a pet! I’m not about to change my schedule around to spare people of any and all exposure to my child. She’s a baby for christ sake. better yet, a toddler! Toddlers can be happy one second and upset and screaming the next. Don’t these people have little cousins or nieces or nephews? Can’t they try to be a little more understanding and a little less rude? Trust me, when she’s having a meltdown, we are usually already decided to take her out. So have a little patience, for christ sake, and just deal with it until we can work her way outside. D and I have to do this 3 times per week and this is the first time this week we’ve baby swapped in here. yesterday and the day before we did it in the parking lot.

Unless someone in HR (or corporate) decides that children are no longer allowed to step foot inside of this company’s front doors, you’ll have to learn to deal with it!

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  1. springdew posted the following on June 23, 2005 at 11:50 am.

    Were you there for the meeting where I brought my big kid? I don’t really recall. He doesn’t even have a little-kid voice anymore, and he can quietly amuse himself without even being noticed, but the rejection was stunning. I think people close their minds so strongly that they don’t even stop to consider anything.

    I’m afraid people lost a great deal of respect that I had for them that day. Refusal to think is a huge sin in my eyes.

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  2. Tania (digsite) posted the following on June 23, 2005 at 1:05 pm.

    no, i don’t think i was there. that’s crazy. I can’t imagine why anybody would have a problem with a kid who was minding his own business and was behaving!

    I might be wrong here but I think people feel that their workplace is sacred territory and suddenly all their patience and tolerance goes out the window. I agree we have the right to work in a safe and comfortable environment but GODDAMN most of us here have children and sometimes to make things work out in our daily lives we gotta bring one in from time to time. Have a little heart!

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  3. geekychick1 posted the following on June 23, 2005 at 3:35 pm.

    how could they not adore that beautiful girl?
    people suck..so fuck them :)

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  4. Tania (digsite) posted the following on June 23, 2005 at 4:33 pm.

    LOL! sure people adore her! as long as she’s not crying, that is.

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  5. grocerynipples posted the following on June 23, 2005 at 7:38 pm.

    Nah…i love her even if she’s crying.

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  6. cadetstimpy posted the following on June 24, 2005 at 12:49 pm.

    The only reason why all those miserable fucks back there act that way is because they are miserable fucks. So any joy that enters there little “world” throws them off.

    You know, people bring in snakes and all kinds of shit back there. I fucking hate snakes, But I never gave a snake a dirty look cause its a snake!

    People who act like that towards children are just projecting their own feelings about themselves. Their innocence is gone and a child just reminds them of their own loss of purity and joy.

    I dont understand anyone that cant look at J. and just feel joy inside.

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  7. Tania (digsite) posted the following on June 24, 2005 at 2:29 pm.

    ROFL!! right on!

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